At young age, I was severely smacked down by our pet dog. When my father learned about it, he brought down his gun and pulled the trigger. The dog instantly died. But I was hospitalized, sending my parents into panic if I had contracted the dreaded rabies. But thank God, there is no indication of infection.
Through the years, the wounds got healed. But the mark of that dog’s bite has deeply sliced through my heart. Everytime, I see through their eyes are thousand words that connects me to their world. No matter how ferocious they can be, my heart will melt at the sight of those angelic beings wagging their tails when they meet you.
I had never been hateful of dogs, even if I had that bad incident. And I am just into thinking, if that one incident has something to do with this affinity to the canine creatures. I guess so. There are just so many dogs who came in and out of my life. And I can feel the pain whenever the time of separation ensues. I can’t bear the thought of leaving them there when I have to be somewhere.
I remember Cotton. A fluffy haired white dog who lived long enough with us since childhood and became part of our family. Everybody just adored her though she never had any puppies. But she became a loyal and faithful dog who never tires to come to you when she is called. I remember as a child, I would join in whenever my aunt will bathe her by the garden hose. Oh, I would just love chasing her running away whisking out the water away from its body.
When I was in gradeschool, my father and my mother have left us to the care of our grandparents to return to Manila for work. I felt the loss of connection. I am in limbo. I felt emptiness. But a dog has saved the day and made me assured of company from then on. But like the others, the dog died and I was in deep sadness. I can still recall how I invited my playmates to come with me under the guava tree , to have a funeral for the dog. I made some wooden cross, some santan flowers plucked from a neighbor’s garden and put in on top of the mound. When my grandmother have found out, she was so angry with me and shouted to stop the ridiculous thing or I would got spanked.
I have forgotten some of the names of my dogs. But most of them, I remember them giving birth underneath my bed. Then in the morning, I will hear some little cute noises from its newly born puppies. There is a dog who still remembered me even after three years of separation. When I held her to my arms, she gave out a heartfelt cry like a long lost child. There is a dog that looks like a tiger who have gone missing after a New Year’s celebration. There is also a dog who one day came home before dying. We later discovered that he got a huge knife cut in his stomach by some heartless bystanders in the street.
I remember Vladimir, the dog who is sleeping during the day but a guardian through the night. I remember Ella, my aunt’s dog in Cavite, who walks like a polio victim due to some birth defects, but she managed to have two beautiful puppies Jack and Ace. I remember Fubu, An-an’s dog in Fujeirah who loves Filipinos that much.
But for now, I try not to have a dog. I don’t want to have the same feeling of loss anymore when something happens to them. And the pain of losing them just lingers so long. I can’t help it. But the fondness I would remember, is when those innocent eyes of the dog would search you through and start wagging their tails as a sign that they trust you enough. That you can be their dearest friend for life.
A dog is indeed a man’s bestfriend.
Oh my, Marvin! You have touched my soul with this. I don’t doubt the early incident allowed you to examine death at an early age…..and your heart identified with a dog’s great heart. I do not like the period of grief following the loss of one of my companions but to deny them my company and mine theirs for the years we can spend together seems just a waste. Thank-you for letting me know you wrote this.
dear leslie,
this blogpost is one of the last essay/ prose pieces i have written before i decided to make hames blog as a poetry blogpage. though i miss the narrative feel of this, but i just felt that it is too much for me to handle.
this blogpost is an endearing piece of writing that still pricks my heart when i remember my dogs. just now, i am misty eyed of sadness. thanks for checking this out and i appreciate your very nice comment. all the best to you.